Patriarchy--the silent killer of men's emotions and spirit

All of us know of how patriarchy (a male dominated society) has impacted women's lives over the past 5200 years.  It is known that women were mentally and physically impacted by patriarchy.

Women were not considered equals intellectually, were considered the property of men until the 1920's and loosely until the 1950's (in the United States) and unable to have paid jobs until relatively recently.

In many countries, women have made huge strides with overcoming patriarchy.  In the United States, more women are going to college than men.

Most people do not think of how patriarchy has affected men.

Men have been under the golden rule ("evil" spell) that having emotions is "sissy"--particularly crying.  The only emotion acceptable is anger. Men's identity is based on their earning power which breeds power and control issues along with being patted on the back for having sex with as many women as possible to prove that they are manly.

Of course this is a stereotype and not every man has followed this or acts this out. However, it still has its impact on the collective male.

All of these things keep men disconnected from their Spirit.  This is due to lack of emotions, competition and greed along with sexuality lacking in emotional intimacy and sacredness in connecting with another person.

I don't see as much progress for men as women in transforming patriarchy.

I talked  the other day to Mae Sylvester about this topic.  Mae has had many careers in her lifetime including politics, consulting and most recently retiring from the U of M's medical school. Mae said (in response to my banter about this), "whatever happened to the 'Men's Movement?'  Somehow a true men's movement was forgotten."  She inspired me to think of how we need to actively change this.

After talking to Mae, I excitedly called soul family Butch Williams, a former NHL player, about this topic and how it has affected him in his life.  Particularly since he was in such a competitive, aggressive sport.

Butch said that lack of emotions and extreme competition at any cost is rampant in the sport.  He said it developed his personality--particularly since his dad was a semi-pro hockey player and his brother, Tommy Williams, was also an NHL hockey player.

We talked about how there's a need to change the paradigm for all men if they're to feel free to be themselves--whatever this means for each individual.

What I believe we're seeking (for both men and women) is authenticity--the permission and freedom for all of us to fully be ourselves which includes self-love and self-acceptance.  By having these important qualities, we have an authentic humanity and cosmos where we love and accept each other.

Maureen Higgins owns Wings of Freedom, an alternative counseling and coaching business. She helps people be their best selves and recognize they are part of the Divine. Maureen has developed numerous energetic healing systems you can learn through her classes. Some of them are turned into audios that clear your energy field like a one-on-one session. Visit her site to try the free sample “Activating your Divine Light Codes. https://www.schoolforhigherconsciousness.com/energetic-healing-audios. Maureen is proud to announce her new website School for Higher Consciousness

Disconnect your energy field from outdated patterns, beliefs, issues & behaviors with ancestors and other soul friends

We are all born into an ancestral line that fits what we need for learning and growth.  As a soul, we want experiences that will help us let go of past guilt and unforgiveness from other lifetimes/soul experiences and move into freedom, love and compassion for self and others.

We pick an ancestry that will help us accomplish this through their positive and negative mental, physical, and emotional qualities.  Some of these qualities lie dormant within us and some of them are more active within us.

You are connected to your ancestors and to everybody and everything through a grid systems that operates like a telephone line. I call it the universal grid system or universal matrix.  You're connected to all souls via this grid system which encompasses many universes and dimensions or realities.

Your ancestors carry patterns, beliefs, issues and behaviors that are passed on through many generations and are connected to you through the universal matrix since anything that has happened, and is not resolved, remains within this system.  You are so linked into your ancestors through the universal matrix that you affect each other and may even feel each others emotions and pain.

If an ancestor(s) has not crossed over, you will feel it even more since an ancestor not crossing over locks in any unhelpful patterns, beliefs, issues & behaviors which makes it hard to clear these up since its like a lock on a door keeping things from moving in or out.  It is important to cross over these souls so they can heal and grow and so they no longer impact all their living ancestors in an unhelpful way.

You also belong to a soul group. Your soul group is like a troupe of actors and actresses who choose to continue working together in all the plays they are in and take turns playing different roles. Sometimes you pick the role of the hero and sometimes you pick the role of the lesson giver who delivers the hardest lessons and hurts people the most. The goal is to pick souls who can help you learn and grow the most and sometimes negative experiences help you grow more rapidly. Some soul group members may even play the role of a spirit guide who is watching over you.

You also have interlocking soul groups who belong to a different troupe of actors and actresses but like to join your soul groups plays and may do so regularly.  They can also play an important role for your learning.

We are now in a time in history where we can start disconnecting or unweaving our energy fields from the ancestors, soul group and interlocking soul groups in any unhelpful and outdated ways and connect only in the most optimal ways so we can move into love and forgiveness more fully (forgiveness = letting go of the past).

As we disconnect or unweave from the unhelpful qualities, we want to connect up to or reinforce a connection to the most positive qualities and gifts.

Below is a healing process that can assist you in being connected to your ancestors, soul group and interlocking soul group in only the most helpful and optimal ways.  By reading the healing process, you are automatically intending for what is written to happen for you with your Higher Self (your Spirit that never dies) directing and monitoring it to make sure it happens optimally and in perfect timing for you.

Do the below healing process, one time a day, for three months since change is incremental.

• I ask my Higher Self to direct and my optimal spirit guides aligned with my highest good, truth, and Source to assist. 
• I ask for an energy of protection and energy of invisibility so only those spirits and guides that are optimal can participate and see in. 
• I ask to open up the Crystalline Dimension (the realm or dimension that is all about love) and the highest dimensions in all universes that are about love and ask that they translate into a vibration that supports optimal health and wellness.  
• I ask that all healing work is done throughout my souls history backwards and forwards in time, all levels of my Being (mentally, emotionally and physically) all appropriate dimensions in all universes and all energy fields that affect me using a no time and no space cocoon or zone for a quick processing.
•  I ask to unweave all outdated patterns, beliefs, issues and behaviors in the energy fields between myself and my soul group members; between myself and my interlocking soul group members and between myself and all ancestors on my mom's side of the family and between myself and all ancestors on my dad's side of the family.
• If there are any ancestors or souls influencing me that have not crossed over, I ask that they are pinpointed and that a loving energy goes around them letting them know that this life is over and that its time to move on to a better place.  I ask that a tunnel of light appears to each ancestor, and soul who hasn't crossed and that any loved ones and spirit guides they resonate with are there to help them.  I ask that a loving energy lets them know that all is forgiven, there is only love and a loving place to go to and they don’t need to see anyone over there they don’t want to see and can come back to visit loved ones still on earth if they want to.
• I ask to transform energies that are unhelpful that are releasing from the unweaving using the exact opposite, most positive energies to do so.
• I ask to pinpoint all lower realm, entities and energies (the lower realms are connected into our unhelpful patterns, etc) and encapsulate them in a bubble of loving crystalline energy and move them out of my energy field using the no time, no space cocoon or zone.  I ask that a tunnel of light goes to each entity or energy so they are guided to their next highest level destination.  
• I ask to bring in the exact opposite of any entity residue and exact opposite of anything not serving me and transform it from my field.
• I ask to connect up to the positive gifts and energies with each member in my soul group, each  member in my interlocking soul group and each soul on my dad's side of the family and each soul on my mom's side of the family including other lifetimes and realities.  If there’s a person or soul that isn't a healthy connection at all, I ask that the connection is made somewhere else--a healthy lifetime
• I ask to bring in energies to transform and cleanse issues, patterns, beliefs, unhelpful energies on a cellular level.
• I ask to bring in my own Divine Essence/Spirit to fill all voids and spaces.  I ask that my Spirit plugs into the circuitry of my brain so it can direct me mentally, emotionally, and physically in all areas of my life.  
• I also ask that the appropriate qualities and energies come in to bring me/them to my next level of growth including love, wisdom, harmony and balance.
• I call forth the strengthening and stabilizing energies for optimal health and vitality so my body accepts all positive changes as a positive with my Higher Self deciding what they are.
• I ask to weave the adaptability energy into all energy fields that affect me so that my mind, emotions and body adapt easily and comfortably to all the changes.  
• I ask that a stability structure comes in so I feel safe and stable with all the changes. I ask for a strong grounding energy to ground these new changes.  
• I ask to restructure and recalibrate all energy fields that affect me into the pattern that reflects the work done today throughout all time and space and beyond, all appropriate dimensions, or until no longer needed. 
• I ask that a no time, no space cocoon or zone is around me (you could picture a caterpillar cocoon around you that is enveloping you in a no time, no space zone) to process all that I've brought in for a fast processing and upgrade of my energy field.
•  I thank my Higher Self for directing. I thank my optimal spirit guides for assisting aligned with my highest good, truth, and Source and thank them for continuing to assist me throughout completion of this process and beyond with my Higher Self directing.. 

The first week or two you may find that issues seem more pronounced since this process is geared to change your life into something more positive and some things may need to change or fall away.

Make sure you talk to like minded friends and talk to those people you need to resolve things with.  If this person isn't someone you can resolve things with, talk to someone else who can help you process things through. 

The end result is to bring in more peace, love and happiness since you are letting go of that which no longer serves you. 

The more of us who do this work, the more it ripples out and creates change for everyone.  "We are the ones we've been waiting for."

Maureen Higgins owns Wings of Freedom, an alternative counseling and coaching business. She helps people be their best selves and recognize they are part of the Divine. Maureen has developed numerous energetic healing systems you can learn through her classes. Some of them are turned into audios that clear your energy field like a one-on-one session. Visit her site to try the free sample “Activating your Divine Light Codes. https://www.schoolforhigherconsciousness.com/energetic-healing-audios. Maureen is proud to announce her new website School for Higher Consciousness

Outdated beliefs cause blocks in our energy fields which limits good solutions and positive manifestation!

I've been shown over and over again how our beliefs can open up or block solutions and good things from coming into our lives. 

Imagine that your beliefs are like a house window.  If your beliefs are limiting in nature, your house windows are locked up tight and nothing can come in or out of them; if your beliefs, thus thoughts, are free-flowing and open to many possibilities, they automatically open up the house windows and positive solutions and many new life adventures can come flowing in.

If you are able to see the human energy field, your aura (the egg-shaped energy field around you which is the attracting part of our energy field) can have closed shields or windows around it when your beliefs and thinking are limited or negative.  In this case, your aura does not let in any new solutions through people, places or situations nor does it bring in things that will be fun and exciting for you.  If your beliefs, thus thinking, are limitless and open to new possibilities, the windows are wide open--there is nothing blocking answers, solutions and good things from coming in via your aura thus your life.

This is also the case with unconscious beliefs. We can carry unconscious beliefs from many sources--our own personal experiences but also from our ancestry, culture and our religion.  We can be like sleeping sheep following some inner messaging system that is not serving us or allowing us to fully live a loving and authentic life.  These unhelpful, and sometimes damaging unconcious beliefs very much block our aura from letting in what we truly need. 

How do you get in touch with and heal these conscious and unconscious beliefs?  This is not an overnight endeavor!  It is truly a lifetime journey--our life dance! 

To start with, you want to put the intention out to the universe that you want to let go of any beliefs that are not serving you--those that are not loving or giving you happiness. 

Notice how your body feels during the day.  Your body is the barometer as to how you're doing mentally, emotionally and physically thus how open you are to new solutions and new adventures.  As you pay attention to how your body is feeling, stay present to it and accept and be with whatever you're feeling.  As you do, you will typically start to release old emotions and stresses.  This is a good start since these things can cover up or be a part of your unhelpful belief system.

Do not judge yourself for unhelpful beliefs or for "not being what you think you should be" since this defeats the purpose.  All humans operate from a false belief system.  We are all here to learn, grow, enjoy and move beyond these old beliefs. 

You were born during this era of change to do just that--create a change within yourself which then helps create widespread change.  When enough of us work on transforming ourselves into a more loving person, this creates a critical mass change since we are all connected to each other via a giant universal matrix or web that connects everybody and everything to each other like a giant telephone line.

Below is a healing process to kick start the release of unhelpful conscious and unconscious beliefs:

• I ask that my Higher Self/Spirit directs the healing and my optimal Spirit Guides/Angels/ancestors/friends from the higher realms (use whatever words fit you best) assists.  I ask for an energy of protection and energy of invisibility so that only those spirits and guides that are optimal can participate and see in.
• I ask that everything that is done in this healing is throughout my souls history, backwards and forwards in time, all levels of my Being down to the smallest particle of energy and all energy fields that affect me using non-linear time to process.
• I ask to bring in the vibration of love and that everything below the vibration of love transforms into the vibration of love.
• I ask to open up the Crystalline Dimension (this is a high vibrational dimension or realm that is about love) along with the highest dimensions in all universes that are about love and ask that they translate into a vibration that supports optimal health and wellness.
• I ask that my Higher Self pinpoints all conscious and unconscious beliefs and patterns that are interferring with my optimal happiness and highest good and brings in the exact opposite energies to transmute and release them from my energy field thus brain and body.
• I ask that the optimal beliefs, that will serve myself and humanity most, are brought into my brain and body so I can think, Be and do what is most fruitful for my life path.
• I ask that all blocks and limitations in my aura (that are like closed windows) are lovingly removed so my brain, body and energy field are opened up to new solutions and new adventures.
• I ask to bring in a strengthening and stabilizing energy for optimal health and vitality so that my body accepts all the positive changes as a positive with my Higher Self deciding what that is.
• I ask that an adaptability energy is woven into all energy fields that affect me so my mind, emotions and body can adapt easily and comfortably to all the changes.
• I ask that a stability structure comes in so my body feels stable and safe with all the changes.
• I ask to lock-in all the work that was done today down to the smallest particle of energy with my Higher Self deciding what is locked in.
• I ask to restructure and recalibrate all energy fields that affect me into the pattern that reflects the work I did today throughout all time and space and beyond or until no longer needed.
• I ask that a no time, no space cocoon goes around me (taking me out of time and space) for a fast processing and upgrade of my energy field.
• I thank my Higher Self for directing this healing process, my optimal Spirit Guides/Angels/Ancestors/friends from the Higher Realms for assisting.  I ask that they continue to assist throughout completion of this healing with my Higher Self directing it.

The more we open up the windows of our energy field to optimal solutions and manifestation, the more love and connection we will feel.  The more of us that do this, the more our world changes into a better place.  Let's make a new years resolution to work on this together!

Maureen Higgins owns Wings of Freedom, an alternative counseling and coaching business. She helps people be their best selves and recognize they are part of the Divine. Maureen has developed numerous energetic healing systems you can learn through her classes. Some of them are turned into audios that clear your energy field like a one-on-one session. Visit her site to try the free sample “Activating your Divine Light Codes. https://www.schoolforhigherconsciousness.com/energetic-healing-audios. Maureen is proud to announce her new website School for Higher Consciousness

Crossing over the ancestors, past life aspects of your soul and other soul friends brings deep healing

Awhile back I wrote a blog titled, "crossing over the ancestry brings deep healing."  This healing process had phenomenal results for many people! Since that time I have expanded this healing process to have a more sweeping affect on us by including past lives and other souls who have not crossed.

The premise is that we have all had many, many lifetimes.  Many of us think that these lifetimes could be going on simultaneous to our current one even though they appear to be in the past.  This would be due to the theory that time only exists due to our brains keeping things in linear time but without the brain doing so, there is no time or space.  If we look at some of the new sciences such as quantum entanglement, quantum physics and string theory, the world and universe becomes very multi-dimensional with many things going on simultaneously.

If its easier to look at things using linear time, totally understandable.  Even if we consider lifetimes as "past lives," I am still using the theory that our souls are much more than what is in this one incarnation and can have a part of itself in another reality despite being here.

We may have been in a past life where who we were had big inner struggles so did not feel worthy to cross over or felt traumatized so got stuck in a "snapshot in time" or felt unfinished with the life so never crossed over. We may have believed we were so bad that we deserved to go to hell so put ourselves there when we died by the mere act of fully believing this to be true.  If a part of us never crosses over, then the way we felt in this lifetime still influences how we feel today.

We may also have people we loved or didn't love who were in a lifetime with us who never crossed over. This can influences how we feel as well.  Particularly if that same person is in our current lifetime.  It can make us feel things for them that do not necessarily fit the current reality.

By crossing over our ancestors PLUS our past life selves/our past life soul aspects PLUS those who were with us in a lifetime, we can feel different about ourselves and our life and also different about those around us.  We can have a paradigm shift with the mere act of doing this.

Below is a healing process to facilitate this.

Healing Process

• I ask that my Higher Self/Spirit directs the healing and my optimal Spirit Guides/Angels/ancestors/friends from the higher realms (use whatever words fit you best) assists.  I ask for an energy of protection and energy of invisibility so that only those spirits and guides that are optimal can participate and see in.
• I ask that everything that is done in this healing is throughout my souls history, backwards and forwards in time, all levels of my Being down to the smallest particle of energy and all energy fields that affect me using non-linear time to process.
• I ask to bring in the vibration of love and that everything below the vibration of love transforms into the vibration of love.
• I ask that the crystalline energy (an energy above polarity that is helping our human selves transform into our most Divine Selves) is woven into my energy fields raising the vibration of my physical body to the highest vibration my physical body can comfortably manage.
• I ask that my Higher Self/Spirit pinpoints all ancestors, past life aspects of my soul and any souls who have not crossed over who have been with me past, present, future and ask that they are encircled in a bubble of loving crystalline energy waking them up to the fact that they have died and its time to move on to a better place.  I ask that this loving energy lets them know that all is forgiven, there is only love and only a  loving place to go to.  I ask that the loving energy is letting them know that they don't need to see anyone on the other side they don't want to see and that they can come back to see loved ones still on earth once they cross over.  By crossing over, it will help their loved ones feel better since they will have resolved the angst they have carried around with them and will bring in a loving energy instead.
• I ask that the loving energy is letting each soul know that there no such thing as hell--it is self-created thus a false belief is being held by them creating a false reality.  I ask that any soul who has created a hell for themselves has their Higher Self pinpoint this hell and bring in the exact opposite, most positive energy to transform it into love. 
• I ask that a tunnel of light appears to each soul who needs crossing over with any loved ones and Spirit Guides/Angels/saints/religious figures they most resonate with welcoming them and letting them know that they want them to come over to get resolution and find peace.  It is something each soul is worthy of and must do.  
• I ask that a no time, no space cocoon (takes everything out of time and space) goes around each soul and the tunnel of light for a fast crossing over.
• I ask that, as these souls cross, all issues, patterns, beliefs, memories, curses--anything that is not about love--is pinpointed and that the exact opposite energy comes in to transform it past, present, future into love, peace, and acceptance.
• I ask to pinpoint all lower realm energies and entities (you could think of this as a part of our/humanities shadow side where we are not loving) that are dormant, invisible, corded to me, anywhere in my energy field backwards and forwards in time and encapsulate them in a bubble of loving crystalline energy and move them out of my energy field quickly using the no time, no space cocoon.  
• I ask that a tunnel of light appears to each lower realm entity and energies to take them to their next higher level destination with a no time, no space cocoon around the entity/energies and tunnel for a fast crossing over.
• I ask to bring in an "implant extraction" energy to clear all lower realm/entity residue backwards and forwards in time.
• I ask to bring in more of my Higher Self/Spirit to fill all voids and spaces along with any other gifts and abilities I need at this time.
• I ask to bring in a strengthening and stabilizing energy for optimal health and vitality so that my body accepts all the positive changes as a positive with my Higher Self deciding what that is.
• I ask that I weave into all energy fields that affect me an adaptability energy so my mind, emotions and body can adapt easily and comfortably to all the changes.
• I ask to lock-in all the work that was done today down to the smallest particle of energy with my Higher Self deciding what is locked in.
• I ask to restructure and recalibrate all energy fields that affect me into the pattern that reflects the work I did today throughout all time and space and beyond or until no longer needed.
• I ask that a no time, no space cocoon goes around me (taking me out of time and space) for a fast processing and upgrade of my energy field.
• I thank my Higher Self for directing this healing process, my optimal Spirit Guides/Angels/Ancestors/friends from the Higher Realms for assisting.  I ask that they continue to assist throughout completion of this healing with my Higher Self directing it.

Remember:  you are much more than your earthly self can comprehend! You are infinite!  Stay open to this infinite and limitless part of self and you will positively change in unknown ways.

Maureen Higgins owns Wings of Freedom, an alternative counseling and coaching business. She helps people be their best selves and recognize they are part of the Divine. Maureen has developed numerous energetic healing systems you can learn through her classes. Some of them are turned into audios that clear your energy field like a one-on-one session. Visit her site to try the free sample “Activating your Divine Light Codes. https://www.schoolforhigherconsciousness.com/energetic-healing-audios. Maureen is proud to announce her new website School for Higher Consciousness

Receiving from the heart brings joy to others!

Many people have a harder time receiving than giving.  Somehow we feel that accepting help or receiving good things from others makes us weak, unnecessarily vulnerable or somehow selfish.  Afterall, aren't we suppose to be self-suffient, strong in the face of adversity and giving rather than receiving?  Sometimes self-sacrifice is ingrained in us due to old collective belief systems.  We're to self-sacrifice, meaning we should "give only," since maybe a child in Africa will be mysteriously helped by this.

I used to be somewhat in that category myself--giving without receiving--until I went through some experiences that directly told me that this approach is difficult for others and can limit closeness and intimacy.

My close friend, Kate, died in December of cancer.  She knew her earth contract was up around September and wanted to be with as many people as possible before she left this planet.  As she became more ill, many of us took turns being with her so that she wouldn't have to be alone.  Many of us saw her every day for a period of time and derived satisfaction from making sure she felt supported and received the help she needed from the nursing home and then hospice.

I felt relieved that I could do something for her--it helped me to be with her.  I knew Kate would not be Kate soon and I wanted to spend  as much time with her as I could.  Many of us felt the same.

Another close friend of mine,  Barbara,  lost her house in a fire.  Many people rallied around her wanting to help her in some way.  Thankfully Barbara allowed people to help her because, if she didn't allow us, we'd all be deprived of the satisfaction of helping someone we loved.  Barbara is an amazing person who we wanted to be around during this time of change.

A loving, dear friend of mine, Liza, was going through some health challenges.  She always had a difficult time accepting help and ended up in the hospital a few different times.  She felt bad having people do things for her.  The only people who helped her were those who did them without consulting with her.  She finally admitted to me that she wasn't someone who received easily.  I realized that I had a difficult time doing something for someone without their permission--I didn't want to interfere.  We finally had a conversation about it and now we're both in a better place.  I finally got to help her--thank goodness--and she appeared to be okay with it.

These three experiences made me realize that we need to allow people to give to us because each of us need to give from a loving heart to feel the true essence of love and caring.  If we only give to others and do not receive, it blocks intimacy since no one wants a lopsided relationships unless they're a narcissist or addict.

The below healing process, if used every day for two months (use your intuition in case the timeframe for you is less or more) will remove blocks to receiving and allow you to give and receive with a balanced heart.

• I ask my Higher Self (the part of you that never dies and continues on for infinity) to direct and my optimal spiritual team to assist (friends and colleagues in the other realms/dimension that are more advanced due to not being in a human body and have contracted to assist you in this lifetime).
• I ask for an energy of protection and energy of invisibility so only those spirits and guides that are optimal can participate and see in.
• I ask that all the work done is throughout my soul's history and beyond, all levels of my Being (my mind, emotions, and body) and all grid systems/energy fields that effect me using non-linear time to process.
• I ask that the Crystalline Dimension (this dimension is the highest vibrational dimension there is besides Source/God) is opened up in my space at the highest level my body can handle.
• I ask that the vibration of love goes into my chakra system (seven major energy centers following the spine), etheric body (blueprint of the mind, emotions, and body), aura (egg shaped energy around each person that is the attracting part of the energy field), connecting grid (this connects you to the universal matrix) and universal matrix (this is like a giant telephone line connecting you to everybody and everything) transforming anything below the vibration of love into the vibration of love.
• I ask that the crystalline energy/filaments (the highest vibration from the creation realm/dimension) is woven into my chakra system, etheric body, aura, connecting grid, and universal matrix raising the vibration of my energy field to the highest vibration my physical body can comfortably manage.
• I ask to bring in the structure to hold and lock in energies that allow me to “receive” and ask that energies come in to make it easy for me to maintain a balance of giving and receiving.
• I ask to pinpoint the old structures and energies blocking me from optimally receiving and ask that the opposite and/or most optimal positive energies come in to tranform and release them from my energy field.
• I ask that a Large diamond shaped structure goes from my 1^st chakra to 3^rd eye with small diamond structures within it to lock in a new way of receivin bringing heaven to earth in many small to large ways.
• I ask that a column of structured light comes in to bring in strength and power needed for this way of Being.
• I ask to pinpoint and release my own self-judgments and judgments of others based on old expectations that make it hard to receive.
• I ask to release fear of being manipulated or in debt if I receive and to bring in acceptance that there is nothing to manipulate within me if I rest in Divine love.
• I ask that this energy process is locked-in down to the smallest particle of energy.
• I ask to bring in a strengthening and strengthening energy for optimal health and vitality so that my body accepts all the positive energies as a positive with my Higher Self deciding what that is.
• I ask that an energy of adaptable is woven into my energy field so that I adapt easily and confortable to all the changes.
• I ask to restructure and recalibrate all grid systems/energy fields that effect me into the pattern that reflects the work I did today throughout all time and space and beyond, all appropriate dimension or until no longer needed.
• Ask that a no time, no space cocoon (kind of like a caterpillar cocoon) goes around me (you are asking that your brain moves out of linear time into what most of the universe contains--non-linear time) for a fast processing and upgrade of your energy system.
• I thank my HS for directing,  my optimal spirit guides for assisting.  I thank them for continuing to assist throughout completion of this process and beyond with my HS directing it.

As your beliefs change about receiving, in a way that allows others to feel the joy of giving to you, you will find you are attracting relationships that are more balanced in giving and receiving thus more intimate.  


As more of us allow this balance of giving and receiving to be a part of our every day reality, it brings forth a template accessible to all on the planet.  Aferall, all of humanity and the universe is energetically connected.  We all effect everybody and everything with everything we think, feel, and do.

Maureen Higgins owns Wings of Freedom, an alternative counseling and coaching business. She helps people be their best selves and recognize they are part of the Divine. Maureen has developed numerous energetic healing systems you can learn through her classes. Some of them are turned into audios that clear your energy field like a one-on-one session. Visit her site to try the free sample “Activating your Divine Light Codes. https://www.schoolforhigherconsciousness.com/energetic-healing-audios. Maureen is proud to announce her new website School for Higher Consciousness

Transforming Loss/Death of a Loved One into Joyous Gratitude

I have lost three close friends of mine over the last year--all of them soul family.  My soul twin brother Andreas Moritz, my soul sister Kate Peppler and another soul sister Kris Nelson.  Kris and Kate died within three days of each other which was about one week ago.

The normal reaction to such a loss is grief which I do believe we need to feel since its part of the human experience.  However, I realized that, at my age (52), loss through death is going to be a more regular occurrence.  I felt deeply that I needed to change my perception and feeling state about death to a totally different experience.

I have been exposed to how those on the other side can be there for us.  Andreas healed my sprained ankle and my digestion very quickly when I asked for his assistance.  After-all, he is well known for his healing abilities and health and wellness expertise.  He still has a website with his many health and wellness books and videos on www.ener-chi.com.

Even with Andreas's deep healing in my life, I still felt devastated losing my soul sisters.  I know this is a normal reaction but I thought, "why not shift to a new human normal?"  After requesting this, Kate showed up to me and an intense energy came with her that felt so strong and healing that my body felt a crystal clear sort of shift that was palpable.  Shortly after, Kris appeared strongly off and on for two days.  Her energy was so joyous and so luminous that I started feeling happy for her thus I started feeling more light and happy myself!!!

I've always believed that people who have died were in a better place and were onto their next mission in life yet I also believed that, us left behind, were left to miss them despite us knowing this about them.

My shift is this:  we can connect up to our loved ones and the higher realms in such a way that we can feel the happiness that they're feeling--like I did with Kris and Kate.

The below healing process is geared to connect you with the higher realms in a way that will bring this type of feeling state within you with those you love who have died.

Healing process to turn loss/death of a loved one into lightness, happiness and gratitude

• I ask my Higher Self (HS) to direct and my optimal spiritual team to assist (spirits in the other realms/dimension that are more advanced than our human existence and have contracted to assist you in this lifetime).
• I ask for an energy of protection and energy of invisibility so only those spirits and guides that are optimal can participate and see in.
• I ask that all the work done is throughout my soul's history and beyond, all levels of my Being (my mind, emotions, and body) and all grid systems/energy fields that effect me using non-linear time to process.
• I ask that the Crystalline Dimension (this dimension is the highest vibrational dimension there is besides Source/God) is opened up in my space at the highest level my body can handle.
• I ask that the vibration of love goes into my chakra system (seven major energy centers following the spine), etheric body (blueprint of the mind, emotions, and body), aura (egg shaped energy around each person that is the attracting part of the energy field), connecting grid (this connects you to the universal matrix) and universal matrix (this is like a giant telephone line connecting you to everybody and everything) transforming anything below the vibration of love into the vibration of love.
• I ask that the crystalline energy/filaments (the highest vibration from the creation realm/dimension) is woven into my chakra system, etheric body, aura, connecting grid, and universal matrix raising the vibration of my energy field to the highest vibration my physical body can comfortably manage.
• I ask that my chakra system, etheric body and connecting grid into the universal matrix disconnects from the loss/death paradigm that planet earth is a part of.  
• I ask that my Higher Self pinpoints the dimension that all souls enter once they depart earth and cross through the tunnel of light into their next beautiful home/reality.
• I ask that my connecting grid, that connects me to everybody and everything, connects up to the dimension that all souls enter once they depart so that I can be open to the energies that resides there and benefit from the celebratory nature of this realm.  I also ask that my physical body feels grounded to earth and desires to be on earth as it basks in this loving energy.
• I ask that my Higher Self pinpoints all souls it is closely linked to who have died and restructures the connection between each soul missed into a structure that is able to feel the joyous nature of how the missed soul feels in the higher realms.
• I ask that my chakra system, etheric body and connecting grid into the universal matrix connects with the oneness paradigm that knows we are all one making loss/death a part of the universal rebirth process.
• I ask that all the work is locked in down to a cellular level.
• I ask that all grid systems/energy fields that effect me are restructured and recalibrated into the pattern that reflects the work I did today throughout all time and space and beyond, all appropriate dimension or until no longer needed.
• I ask that a no time, no space cocoon (kind of like a caterpillar cocoon) goes around me (you are asking that your brain moves out of linear time into what most of the universe contains--non-linear time) for a fast processing and upgrade of my energy system.
• I thank my HS for directing, my optimal spirit guides for assisting.  I thank them for continuing to assist throughout completion of this process and beyond with my HS directing it.

It is difficult losing a loved one since you will never see them again in the same physical form.  The goal is to connect up with their energy body and Divine Essence so you're connected to their eternal state which is their most loving essence.

Maureen Higgins owns Wings of Freedom, an alternative counseling and coaching business. She helps people be their best selves and recognize they are part of the Divine. Maureen has developed numerous energetic healing systems you can learn through her classes. Some of them are turned into audios that clear your energy field like a one-on-one session. Visit her site to try the free sample “Activating your Divine Light Codes. https://www.schoolforhigherconsciousness.com/energetic-healing-audios. Maureen is proud to announce her new website School for Higher Consciousness

Trust and asking for what you want brings in greater happiness & miracles

Being human, trust isn't something that comes naturally to us.  Our bodies and brains hold onto all of the difficult challenges we've gone through making us feel that life is to be feared and not embraced. Part of the challenge is that our brain believes that everything is permanent and that each experience we've had or will have is continuing on in some way since its playing a silent/unconscious program in the background of our brain and bodies that keeps it believing that we'll never be complete with it.

I believe that our bodies are programmed backwards.  For centuries we were unable to express our truth or work through anything that didn't fit the norms of the times.  If we did, the church and/or state/government would torture and kill us.  We learned to keep things closed off so we could stay safe.  This meant that every experience we had was imprinted within our psyche causing perpetual pain and fear since there was no way to let it go.  We're still trapped in that paradigm.

In some countries extreme oppression is still the case.  However, with the internet, we're all aware of all the happenings anywhere across the globe so I believe we're transforming this hierarchical way of thinking and Being by eliminating the secrecy that keeps us all trapped culturally and collectively.

We are all actors and actresses in each other's play.  This very existence is temporary and is here for some sort of learning or experience we're all a part of together.  In today's era, our souls have chosen/contracted to transcend the past by rising above it in our thoughts and feelings.  We can change our personal reality by not buying into the everyday thinking and being open to Divine Intervention and miracles.  I've seen this played out numerous times in my life so solidly trusting that we can be different by thinking and feeling differently about things is the key along with asking for help from those souls in the physical and non-physical worlds.

A few things stand out in my mind from my own life experiences.

In my 20's, (which was the 1980's) I really didn't like glasses but needed them for long distance vision.  I decided to wear extended wear contacts which made things easier.  With the birth of my second son, I needed to have an emergency c-section after being in labor for many hours.  I forgot to take out my extended wear contacts before going to the hospital so my eyes dried out and somehow one of the contacts cut my eye. This injury was much more painful than the c-section.  A day or so after this occurred, I realized that I could see long distance without my contacts!   I went to the eye doctor and discovered that the cut was in the exact right location in my eye so it corrected my vision. I haven't needed glasses for long distance since and its been 24 years later!  I attribute this to my son's soul who I believe will bring forth a miracle for himself and others after going through his own crisis's and emergencies!  He showed me this about himself the moment he was born!

Another good example is very recent.  I was sitting in a chair doing energy work on a client who was lying on my massage table.  I didn't realize that my foot fell asleep.  I stood up and my ankle twisted to the side off of my sandals which had heels.  I felt myself starting to black out.  I didn't want to wreck my clients session by passing out so called in my recently deceased soul brother Andreas Moritz to help me.  Some of you may know him from his many books he's written on health and wellness and other healing tools he and his talented wife developed.  Andreas immediately came to my aid.  I saw and felt him working on my ankle as I somehow managed to stand and not fall over as I went in and out of blacking out.  After a couple of minutes I felt fine.  I heard him tell me, "ice it a few times, do not exercise for two days and you will not develop a twisted ankle."  He was right--what should have been a twisted ankle turned into nothing but a minor mishap showing me a miracle!

Another rather funny miracle was a couple weeks ago.  I wanted to do another detox, a few months back, so ran across a product that was geared towards detoxing the intestines and blood.  The advertisement said that you could take this product forever more without side affects.  The first few months I felt fantastic! Eventually I started feeling very foggy and unwell in the morning along with stomach tightness and pain.   I called in my soul brother, Andreas, to help me figure out what it was--after-all he was well known for his liver and gallbladder flush book.  Andreas did a "scan" of me and said, "get off of that detox product--you've taken it too long!!!  I did and I felt 80% better by the next morning. However, I still felt the tightness in my stomach.  I asked Andreas to help me with it.  I said to him, "Andreas, it feels like something is blocking my intestines--can you help me let it go?"  I saw him work on my intestinal area and felt it too.  By the next morning I felt about a 70% release of the pain.  Two mornings later some strange object came out of me that was about 2" x 1".  Well, that corrected the problem!!!

The moral of this story is, ask for what you want and ask for those in the physical and non-physical worlds to assist you.  Those in the non-physical worlds have energetic tools and knowledge above what we do here to help you.  Then you must trust that miracles can occur and be open to them.

There are countries where this is harder for people to do since being in survival mode makes it hard to take the time to do so.  However, there is always a small percentage of individuals, despite the trauma and oppression, who rise above it all.  I also believe that each of us, who are not in survival mode, can create a dramatic shift in consciousness thus creating a tipping of the scales where it creates change in other areas of the globe (many people think of this as the 100th monkey theory).

I have been rigorously working on "trusting that anything that is meant to be will be and anything that isn't meant to be won't be."  This has helped me tremendously when things end in relationships or situations.  By truly believing this, it enables my brain to be open to something new which then produces a beautiful doorway to open up.   This is supplemented by, "everything is temporary including this lifetime.  I need to enjoy everything while I can since nothing is going to last," along with, "every person and situation in my life is temporary so I want to enjoy each and everything in my life before it falls away since everything does."  These types of "reprogramming" statements, said with regularity, help tremendously!  My brain now believes this and I feel increasingly happier and more alive!!

Healing process to help with trust, happiness & miracles

• I ask my Higher Self (HS) to direct and my optimal spiritual team to assist (spirits in the other realms/dimension that are more advanced than our human existence and have contracted to assist you in this lifetime).
• I ask for an energy of protection and energy of invisibility so only those spirits and guides that are optimal can participate and see in.
• I ask that all the work done is throughout my soul's history and beyond, all levels of my Being (my mind, emotions, and body) and all grid systems/energy fields that effect me using non-linear time to process.
• I ask that the Crystalline Dimension (this dimension is the highest vibrational dimension there is besides Source/God) is opened up in my space at the highest level my body can handle.
• I ask that the vibration of love goes into my chakra system (seven major energy centers following the spine), etheric body (blueprint of the mind, emotions, and body), aura (egg shaped energy around each person that is the attracting part of the energy field), connecting grid (this connects you to the universal matrix) and universal matrix (this is like a giant telephone line connecting you to everybody and everything) transforming anything below the vibration of love into the vibration of love.
• I ask that the crystalline energy/filaments (the highest vibration from the creation realm/dimension) is woven into my chakra system, etheric body, aura, connecting grid, and universal matrix raising the vibration of my energy field to the highest vibration my physical body can comfortably manage.
• I ask that the energy of trust is woven into my chakra system and that my heart chakra is restructured to open up fully to trusting my soul's plan for me and to open to loving unconditionally.
• I ask that the energy of trust is woven into my etheric body so that my entire body trusts my soul's plan for me and is open to miracles happening for myself.
• I ask that the energy of trust is woven into my aura so that I put out the signal of trust to the universe attracting all things for my optimal good.
• I ask that the energy of trust is woven into the connecting grid and universal matrix allowing me to send the energy of trust out to all there is so that we as a collective can attract miracles and bring forth a better world to live in where everyone has an optimal life.
• I ask that all the work is locked in down to a cellular level.
• I ask that all grid systems/energy fields that effect me are restructured and recalibrated into the pattern that reflects the work I did today throughout all time and space and beyond, all appropriate dimension or until no longer needed.
• I ask that a no time, no space cocoon (kind of like a caterpillar cocoon) goes around me (you are asking that your brain moves out of linear time into what most of the universe contains--non-linear time) for a fast processing and upgrade of my energy system.
• I thank my HS for directing, my optimal spirit guides for assisting.  I thank them for continuing to assist throughout completion of this process and beyond with my HS directing it.

Trust that your life can change and be open to assistance and help from the seen and unseen worlds.  Put out the intention that our planet can change and that we are all receiving help from the seen and unseen worlds.  Let's all ask for a miracle for an optimal planet for all of us.

Maureen Higgins owns Wings of Freedom, an alternative counseling and coaching business. She helps people be their best selves and recognize they are part of the Divine. Maureen has developed numerous energetic healing systems you can learn through her classes. Some of them are turned into audios that clear your energy field like a one-on-one session. Visit her site to try the free sample “Activating your Divine Light Codes. https://www.schoolforhigherconsciousness.com/energetic-healing-audios. Maureen is proud to announce her new website School for Higher Consciousness