Friday, November 30, 2012

Loving what is with those we're with

I've been thinking about love lately and how we only have a short time with each person in our life.  How much do we really appreciate the time spent with those close to us or with any of the people who are here with us in our life?  How much do we let them know we love them?

Part of the challenge of love is the expectations we place on what love means.  We all place an expectation on what the relationship is to look like.  We expect that a parent/child relationship is to look a certain way; that a sibling relationship is to look a certain way; that a lover relationship is to look a certain way.  These ancestral, cultural, and religious norms we place on our relationships typically make us disappointed.

We come into a lifetime to learn certain lessons.  We choose all the actors and actresses in our play/our life so that we can work through and learn whatever our soul thinks is most beneficial to us.  We choose our mother, our father, our siblings, our closest romantic relationships, our closest friends, etc.  We may choose a mother to play the role of a cold, distant person, a father to play the role of an alcoholic, and the other relatives to play certain key roles in our life play so we can learn to look at life differently and to learn other important key lessons.

If we expect that people will fit a certain, stereotypical role in our life, we will always be disappointed.  If we decide that key people in our lives were surely not to be in stereotypical roles and are really here to help us move out of the old viewpoints, old meanings of love, old behaviors and old emotions, we then become grateful that we can experience something different during this temporary stay on planet earth.

We typically come into a lifetime to learn one to three key lessons.  We typically learn these lessons throughout the lifespan through different people and different scenarios.  After all, we've come to master something and mastery takes repetition and a higher learning curve.  We don't start with calculus and end with arithmetic--we keep working towards a more complex understanding of things.

We choose the souls/people and scenarios that will helps us learn the most.  Like a good, juicy book or movie, we want something that will move us, will help us look at the world differently.  The every day just doesn't do it for most of us as much as we think it should.  Most of us think that normal should be uneventful and smooth.  This just isn't reality on this learning planet we've chosen to be a part of.

If we truly see that all the closest souls in our life fit what our souls came to learn, then we don't get disappointed, hurt, and disillusioned.  We look at it like we would a good dramatic novel or movie--something to move us--something where all the best actors and actresses have come to play an interesting part in our interesting play.

Healing process to move us into loving what is with those we're with


  • Ask your Higher Self (HS) to direct and your optimal spiritual team to assist (spirits in the other realms/dimension that are more advanced than our human existence and have contracted to assist you in this lifetime). 
  • Ask for an energy of protection and energy of invisibility so only those spirits and guides that are optimal can participate and see in.
  • Ask that all the work done is throughout your soul's history and beyond, all levels of your Being (your mind, emotions, and body) and all grid systems/energy fields that effect you using non-linear time to process.
  • Ask that a vibration comes into the brain and 1st chakra (at the tailbone) to release ancestral, cultural, and religious beliefs and expectations that do not fit your HS's learning process.
  • Ask that a vibration comes into brain, and throughout the body, to bring in the deep knowing that you are having a temporary experience on earth that is filled with rich learning and unique adventure.
  • Ask that a pink energy comes into the aura (egg shaped energy around you) and etheric body (blueprint of your mind, emotions, and body) to bring the Divine Mother energy for compassion for self and others so acceptance of our human experience comes in.
  • Ask that a blue energy comes into the aura and etheric body bringing in male strength of purpose so that courage and strength are within you to accept your life without the scripted expectations and beliefs we're all indoctrinated into.
  • Ask that a happy energy comes in to align your human self with your HS so that life isn't taken so seriously.
  • Ask that a yellow energy comes into your aura so that what you attract into your life and what you put out into the world is fully aligned with your HS.
  • Ask that all the work is locked in down to a cellular level.
  • Ask that all grid systems/energy fields that effect you are restructured and recalibrated into the pattern that reflects the work you did today throughout all time and space and beyond, all appropriate dimension or until no longer needed.
  • Ask that a no time, no space cocoon (kind of like a caterpillar cocoon) goes around you (you are asking that your brain moves out of linear time into what most of the universe contains--non-linear time) for a fast processing and upgrade of your energy system.
  • Thank your HS for directing, your optimal spirit guides for assisting.  Thank them for continuing to assist throughout completion of this process and beyond with your HS directing it.
Embrace the uniqueness of each relationship in your life--even the ones that are so difficult that you find its better to part ways.  Each relationship is here to teach you an important learning that will help make you stronger, non-judgmental and more loving--even if loving someone means letting them go in the human sense.

Remember, you are a Divine Being having a human experience.  Each person in your life is a Divine Being even if they've chosen a role in your life (and perhaps in most people's lives) that is more difficult. After all, we are here to learn and grow in unique ways.  Change your perception and attitude and change your life--allow each experience to help you do so.

(To create a new vision with community, take a look at a special community event geared towards letting go of the past as you know it and creating a new and optimal present future for self and humanity.  This special event will be on December 21, 2012 in Minneapolis, MN at the Calhoun Beach Club.  For details see www.communityforhigherconsciousness.com  Registration is under the "events" tab. Hope to see you there!)



Monday, November 19, 2012

Soul Groups Create Collective Change at Record Speeds

We've entered a unique time in history.  Many of us are noticing the immense speed to all beginning, middle, and endings occurring in many areas of our lives.  Our lives are becoming as quick as the speed of our technology but for different reasons--for the purpose of launching quickly into something new.

All of this change may seem scary since its happening so quickly that we hardly catch a breath in between.  However, we are entering a new era of humanity where our souls are ready for change and want it to happen quickly despite the resistance of our human self.

We all have people/souls we've shared many lifetimes with that some of us would define as our "soul group."  Our soul group are the pivotal people/souls to help us make the needed change to move forward quickly.  Some of our soul group is still on planet earth; some of our soul group is on the other side without the earthly physical body. Some of our soul group is here to help us through love, support, and acceptance while other members of our soul group are helping us through being the lesson giver forcing us to make changes to viewpoints, release hurts, and ultimately, move forward differently.

Our soul group is very important at this time of change since we are all uniting to work through the collective, ancestral, interpersonal, and personal core issues we all are anchored into together.  Working these things through is what is needed to move forward differently.  We have come together before, in other lifetimes, to work through unfinished business but the speed or capacity to do so was turtle slow and had a rather low success rate due to the low vibration and lack of tools to help us.  The era we're currently in allows us to work things through with immense speed and with many tools which can be unnerving to our human selves.  Its only been available since the late 1970's and in a highly accessible way since the 2000's.

We are also here to unite together around interesting projects and ideas that will help humanity and the planet at this time. My soul group is working together helping adults and children be their best selves through counseling, energy work, guided imagery, education, workshops, alternative medicine, and high level science and math.  Some of my soul group is finding ways to help children with autism, improve the healthcare system, improve the academic world, the way we look at the universe through creating new science and math theories, and helping humanity change their old paradigms into something that serves all who reside on planet earth.  We're a group who is passionate about serving.  All of this is happening at immense speed.

We must put aside our fears and limited thinking so we can bring forth our best selves to utilize our gifts optimally.  Part of our limitation is thinking that gifts should look a certain way.  All gifts are equally important since they all fit together to make a better world.  Minimizing what you have to offer yourself, your family, your community, humanity, and the planet does not serve anyone.

If we let go of our ego's thinking that we need to be the only successful one, only talented one, only one who makes it to the top of the corporate ladder, then we can move into knowing that success is meant for everyone and that success comes in different packages for each person.  This helps us claim our own unique success even if it doesn't fit societal standards or beliefs.


Healing process to promote new era thinking
  • Ask your Higher Self (HS) to direct and your optimal spiritual team to assist (spirits in the other realms/dimension that are more advanced than our human existence and have contracted to assist you in this lifetime). 
  • Ask for an energy of protection and energy of invisibility so only those spirits and guides that are optimal can participate and see in.
  • Ask that all the work done is throughout your soul's history and beyond, all levels of your Being (your mind, emotions, and body) and all grid systems/energy fields that effect you using non-linear time to process.
  • Ask that an energy comes into the brain to transmute all limited beliefs about your capabilities and gifts.
  • Ask that your optimal guides, with your HS directing, rewire your etheric brain to activate new areas of the brain to promote optimal creativity and unique thinking.
  • Ask that your brain is activated for optimal happiness and optimal bonding with those people and souls who are there to help you.
  • Ask that new patterns go throughout the body to establish creativity, unique thinking, optimal happiness and optimal bonding.
  • Ask that a vibration comes in to release anything interfering with healthy thinking, happiness, bonding, and behaviors.
  • Ask that the vibration of confidence comes in so you know you are worthy of being your best self.
  • Ask that all the work is locked in down to a cellular level.
  • Ask that all grid systems/energy fields that effect you are restructured and recalibrated into the pattern that reflects the work you did today throughout all time and space and beyond, all appropriate dimension or until no longer needed.
  • Ask that a no time, no space cocoon (kind of like a caterpillar cocoon) goes around you (you are asking that your brain moves out of linear time into what most of the universe contains--non-linear time) for a fast processing and upgrade of your energy system.
  • Thank your HS for directing, your optimal spirit guides for assisting.  Thank them for continuing to assist throughout completion of this process and beyond with your HS directing it.
It is time to embrace your gifts and abilities fully and completely.  After all, you are a Divine Being having a human experience.  You have come to this planet at this time to co-create a better world to live in.

(To create a new vision with community, take a look at a special community event geared towards letting go of the past as you know it and creating a new and optimal present future for self and humanity.  This special event will be on December 21, 2012 in Minneapolis, MN at the Calhoun Beach Club.  For details see www.communityforhigherconsciousness.com  Registration is under the "events" tab. Hope to see you there!)

Monday, November 12, 2012

Wordless Insights: Next Step Towards Unity Consciousness

Its been more difficult putting words to my experiences lately.  My internal reference point has shifted so much recently that I mostly "feel" what is going on internally and around me.  I've been "feeling" gratitude and love for those closest to me who are in my soul group.  I "feel" a connection to those around me and to planet earth.  I "feel" gratitude for my business, "Wings of Freedom" since I get to work with the best people ever.  I "feel" excitement for the unknown adventures that I "feel" are coming my way.  I seem to be "feeling" my way through everything lately and the feeling state is mostly gratitude.  The  insight I've known for years is finally becoming internally solidified:  we truly are Divine Beings having a human experience so our current human words to describe this experience are becoming outdated.

I've noticed that what troubles me most is negative judgments people make about other people's challenges and/or experiences.  Even that "feels" like a phase we as humans are breaking free from as we realize we are Divine Beings all having our own unique experience on this temporary place we call earth.  No one else really knows the innermost makings of our personalities or our soul.  Even for ourselves, the beauty of our inner self is not yet fully tapped or recognized.

I believe that those of us who have been on this transformative path for some time are moving into this wordless feeling state together.  The rest of the collective will eventually follow. The energies are being downloaded from the higher realms to support us in doing so.  This means that we're ready to Be different as we enter this new collective time of change.  We're ready to move into a feeling state of love, unity, and acceptance which first starts with ourselves.

Healing Process to Wordless Feeling State

  • Ask your Higher Self (HS) to direct and your optimal spiritual team to assist (spirits in the other realms/dimension that are more advanced than our human existence and have contracted to assist you in this lifetime). 
  • Ask for an energy of protection and energy of invisibility so only those spirits and guides that are optimal can participate and see in.
  • Ask that all the work done is throughout your soul's history and beyond, all levels of your Being (your mind, emotions, and body) and all grid systems/energy fields that effect you using non-linear time to process.
  • Call forth a new doorway of change to bring in an entirely new internal and external reality.
  • Ask that the new doorway energies fully integrate and structure into all grid systems/energy fields that effect you down to all levels of your Being and that they are locked in.
  • Ask that vibrations come in to release old memories, emotions, and beliefs that do not fit this new doorway.
  • Ask that vibrations come in to release fears of the unknown so you can accept this new era with excited anticipation.
  • Ask that a calming and strengthening energy come in.
  • Ask that a high level aspect of your soul, aligned with unity consciousness, comes in bringing forth the knowledge on how to Be and feel within this state of consciousness thus making it a part of who you are.
  • Ask that all optimal energies and states of consciousness are locked in down to a cellular level.
  • Ask that all grid systems/energy fields that effect you are restructured and recalibrated into the pattern that reflects the work you did today throughout all time and space and beyond, all appropriate dimension or until no longer needed.
  • Ask that a no time, no space cocoon (kind of like a caterpillar cocoon) goes around you (you are asking that your brain moves out of linear time into what most of the universe contains--non-linear time) for a fast processing and upgrade of your energy system.
  • Thank your HS for directing, your optimal spirit guides for assisting.  Thank them for continuing to assist throughout completion of this process and beyond with your HS directing it.
You are living in an exciting era of change.  All of the changes you are going through are preparing you for this.  Anything that no longer works for you will fall away so that you can embark on a new journey.  Trust it, embrace it, and enjoy the ride!

(To create a new vision with community, take a look at a special community event geared towards letting go of the past as you know it and creating a new and optimal present future for self and humanity.  This special event will be on December 21, 2012 in Minneapolis, MN at the Calhoun Beach Club.  For details see www.communityforhigherconsciousness.com  Registration is under the "events" tab. Hope to see you there!)




Saturday, November 3, 2012

Catapult into the Mature Wisdom of Love & Acceptance!

Three of my close female friends sat in my living room about five years ago talking about embodying the wisdom of the "crone."  To us the crone meant embodying feminine, mature, heart-felt wisdom that was to be passed along to both men and women.  We decided we'd do a ceremony of sorts where we'd initiate ourselves into this stage of growth.  At the time, two of us (myself included) were in our mid-40's and the other two were just entering their 60's.  My friend in her 40's, who is always earnest with everything she does said, "I'm not sure I've had enough experience for this stage--I feel a little uncertain about my readiness."  I said, "you're wise beyond your years--just go with it."  

My friend Linda said, "I think part of the wisdom of the crone is about not working through our issues in the old ways.  I don't think we need to internally focus on what needs to be cleared and what needs to be worked through so rigorously.  Instead, we need to focus on what we want to see positively occurring in our lives and how to be in service."

At the time, I couldn't completely relate to Linda's crone advice.  After all, she was more in the crone stage than myself and my other 40 something friend.  I was still in the "rigorously working through the issues stage" and it certainly seemed to be working for me.  In hindsight, I think she was referring to what I called (in my earlier blog) Phase 7 which is a very high spiritual phase and I was still in Phase 6 which is about working through the issues.  Perhaps my friend was right--we weren't quite ready for this crone phase yet.  

Linda's wise advice has been coming into my awareness a lot lately.  I'm finding myself not as inclined to rigorously examine my inner life like I have over the last 25 years.  I feel more inclined to move into loving and accepting myself--including all of my ideosyncrasies.  This doesn't mean I don't take responsibility for my part in any challenges that come my way but I'm more likely to move into love and acceptance for my faults and blemishes.  After all, we're all so imperfect here.  At this stage of my life, love and acceptance seems to be the key for transformation.

Healing process to move men and women into their feminine wisdom
  • Ask your Higher Self (HS) to direct and your optimal spiritual team to assist (spirits in the other realms/dimension that are more advanced than our human existence and have contracted to assist you in this lifetime). 
  • Ask for an energy of protection and energy of invisibility so only those spirits and guides that are optimal can participate and see in.
  • Ask that all the work done is throughout your soul's history and beyond, all levels of your Being (your mind, emotions, and body) and all grid systems/energy fields that effect you using non-linear time to process.
  • Ask that a vibration comes into the aura (the egg shaped energy field around you) and etheric body (the blueprint of your mind, emotions, and body) to break down and release barriers/shields to finding love within and externally.
  • Ask for a robin egg colored energy to go into your aura creating a new structure of manifestation to manifest love and acceptance into your life internally and externally.
  • Ask that an energy goes into the 1st chakra (at the tailbone) neutralizing beliefs, memories, and patterns so that viewpoints turn into the feeling state of love and acceptance.
  • Ask that structures come into all grid systems/energy fields that effect you solidifying the holding of this new love and acceptance feeling state.
  • Ask that a new structure comes into your etheric body to prepare you for a unique, fulfilling purpose that helps humanity in small and/or large ways (just embodying love and acceptance is a huge purpose).
  • Ask that a new script, without words, comes in that is purpose filled without the human story attached to it.  This script is based on a feeling state aligned with love and acceptance.
  • Ask that all the work is locked in down to a cellular level.
  • Ask that all grid systems/energy fields that effect you are restructured and recalibrated into the pattern that reflects the work you did today throughout all time and space and beyond, all appropriate dimension or until no longer needed.
  • Ask that a no time, no space cocoon (kind of like a caterpillar cocoon) goes around you (you are asking that your brain moves out of linear time into what most of the universe contains--non-linear time) for a fast processing and upgrade of your energy system.
  • Thank your HS for directing, your optimal spirit guides for assisting.  Thank them for continuing to assist throughout completion of this process and beyond with your HS directing it.
No matter what your age, gender, or stage in life, intending to embody this mature wisdom will catapult you into love and acceptance at a rate that is perfect for you as we enter a new portal of growth and wisdom on the planet at this time.

After all, you are a Divine Being having a human experience.  This phase of the ride is what you've been waiting for!