We all have challenging people in our lives. They are our designated lesson givers who volunteered to help us work through our issues and patterns in this lifetime. We may be lesson givers to them as well.
You may love them very much but worry about them not doing well or not wanting them to suffer. This can create a pattern of wanting to rescue or save someone causing guilt and co-dependence which develops an unhealthy connection to them. This same pattern is likely common in your ancestry and in many other lifetimes.
You may have very difficult lesson givers who are mentally, emotionally, physically or sexually abusive. You may have strong feelings of dislike, even hate, because of the harm they've caused you creating a victim and suffering pattern. The strong emotions you carry are like a poison that hurts you. This is also a pattern that is likely in your ancestry and in other lifetimes.
The challenging people in your life may become corded into your energy field, due to the patterns and issues they represent for you, which amplifies your pain.
Your issues and patterns create holes in your energy field that allow someone, who represents these things, to connect their energy field up to yours via what can be thought of as a cord or rope. Sometimes the cord appears at a hip or at the pelvis area or heart--depending on where we are carrying the pattern, issues and hurt within our body.
How can you tell they are corded to you? You may have physical symptoms such as a hip that is suddenly sore for no apparent reason. You may feel their anxiety and confusion which isn't usual for you. You may have lots of dark thoughts and feelings that are not the norm for you which may be the kind of things they are feeling and thinking. If someone has been corded into your field for an extended period of time, you may become used to it and really believe these are your emotions and thoughts. You may be carrying pain that you don't need to carry.
There is something you can do about it. You can put the intention that you want your Higher Self to direct and spirit guides (friends, ancestors, angels, higher dimensional Beings) to assist in removing the cord between the two of you. That way you can both be freed up from being connected to each other negatively and ask that you are connected only in the most optimal ways including full resolution and love.
The biggest thing you can do is work on your own issues and patterns. Also, forgiving yourself and others (forgiveness = letting it go) for any perceived or real harm that has been caused. This will ensure that people cannot cord into your energy field.
By doing this, it reverberates into your ancestral energy fields and the collective energy fields (including other lifetimes) contributing to transformation and healing for all people. Healing ourselves does heal others!
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Friday, June 30, 2017
Thursday, June 8, 2017
We have more than our personal issues affecting how we think and feel. We have our ancestry, other lifetimes and the collective itself. Our personal issues likely account for 20% of what is bothering us.
The ancestry is a big influence with our thinking and feelings. Anything unresolved, within the ancestry, is unresolved within us.
Unresolved trauma, loss, addiction, abuse and other difficulties, through at least seven generations, stays within the ancestral energy fields negatively influencing you and all your ancestors. To receive assistance with resolution, ask your Higher Self (Spirit) to direct and optimal spirit guides to assist with your ancestral healing. Ask that the issues, patterns, beliefs, memories, emotions and beliefs that are unresolved are pinpointed. Ask that they are deleted, spiced out and repaired into full resolution and love. Ask that your connection between each of the ancestors (both alive and deceased), that is not serving you, is deleted, spliced out and transformed into full resolution, love and an optimal connection with each ancestor.
When people die, sometimes they do not cross, into the light, for a variety of reasons. If someone has not crossed, the challenges and angst they had stay locked into the ancestral energy fields. You can help your entire ancestry by asking them to cross over. If you do not know whether someone has crossed, ask your Higher Self and spirit guides to pinpoint any souls who haven’t crossed. Ask that loving energy goes around them letting them know that this lifetime is totally over and its time to move onto their next best, higher level destination.
You can ask that a tunnel of light appears with loved ones and spirit guides they resonate with to assist them. Talk to them inside your head or out loud. Address their fears in crossing so they feel safe to move on. The common reasons they have not crossed are: They believe in hell so placed themselves in a self created hell for perceived or real mistakes they have made that they believe can’t be forgiven. They may not want to see someone who hurt them, and died before them, so believe its safer to not cross. They may want to stay around loved ones not realizing they can cross over and come back. People who commit suicide typically don’t cross over since, after they leave their bodies and the severe depression is no longer there, they regret how much their death hurt their loved ones. Let them know that, by not crossing, everyone in the entire ancestry, including their loved ones, feels the problems and angst they have or had in that lifetime. Crossing over cleanses away their pain so they can come back carrying love & wisdom to share.
These simple techniques can take a weight off of you and those in your ancestry. The more you do these types of exercises, the better you and the entire ancestry will feel. Healing ourselves does heal others!
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Saturday, June 3, 2017
We are all interconnected via a complex, intricate geometric based grid system that we can call the Divine Matrix. All souls, all planets and stars, all living consciousness in all timelines, dimensions and universes are a part of this Divine Matrix.
As an interconnected Divine Consciousness, we have all agreed to see what its like having many experiences from hate to love in many dimensions or realities. We have agreed to take different roles with each other to see what its like in different bodies, different life experiences, in different eras. We tend to come back with the same troupe of actors that are in our soul group. We may enlist other troupes of actors that are in other souls groups. These soul help with our life play. Sometimes we play the hero and sometimes we play the difficult lesson giver and anything in between.
The challenge with human experiences is that our bodies hold onto guilt and unforgiveness even after making amends or learning from the experiences. The guilt and unforgiveness is etched into the soul as something to work through since resolving them is the key for freedom and love.
You’ve had many lifetimes with various themes where guilt and unforgiveness are unresolved. Therefore, before you were born, you met with a council of loving spirit guides who helped you pick life circumstances that would help you resolve these themes of guilt and unforgiveness. You and the council decided which theme is most beneficial to work through. The lifetimes that fit this theme are now set up to influence your current lifetime much like an astrological configuration that stays in your energy field guiding you towards resolution.
You pick an ancestry with a similar theme to the unresolved lifetimes. You are born into a collective era that also fits the theme. You now have the framework for your life journey.
We are now in a time in history where you can resolve these themes of guilt and unforgiveness. One way is by disconnecting the Divine Matrix from your ancestors, soul group, many lifetimes and the collective in any unhelpful and outdated ways and connect in through full resolution, forgiveness and love. (Forgiveness = letting go of the past).
How do you do this? On a daily basis, through intention and enlisting your own beautiful spirit/Higher Self to be in charge of this process with your spirit guides assisting to help you let go of the past. Your intention can be set for changing your thinking and letting go of guilt and unforgiveness leading you to the optimal practitioners, books, audios, friends, etc. You can meditate about this and use it as a walking meditation as you live your life.
The main thing is have a daily practice of creating positive change in your life and find tools and practices that work for you. Become the change you want in the world.
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