Women have been hurt by patriarchy mentally and physically but have made huge progress in western culture. Women can work many of the same jobs as men and more women than men are now attending college. Men, unfortunately, have made little progress in any cultures around the world.
Men's wounds from patriarchy need to be held in the light and transformed since it affects both men and women and their relationships together.
Thor Eisentrager excitedly contacted me after reading my last blog. Thor let me know that he agreed with my blog and that this important topic has been his life long spiritual mission. He was a part of the men's movement in the 1980's and was very disheartened after the whole movement collapsed without a sound.
I have known Thor since 1999 since we're both a part of some of the same spiritual circles. When I first met Thor, he had recently let go a full-time career as a musician to embark fully on his spiritual path. This meant transforming his own inner self which is the key for all of us to be authentic personally and spiritually. This means getting in touch with one's emotions as well.
I am excited to see that Thor is now ready to take his spiritual path a step further--assisting men in getting in touch with their authentic, spiritual core. I have no doubt he will make an impact on other men and the women who love them.
I talked to my previous neighbor and friend, Doug Toft, about this topic. Doug was also a part of the old men's movement. I have always found Doug to be more in touch with his emotions and spiritual authenticity than most men. Doug has been a writer and editor for 30 years and was intrigued with my idea of bringing back the men's movement in an updated form by writing a book interviewing many men in different cultures and in different fields such as music, sports and corporate.
Butch Williams, a former NHL player, whom I wrote about last blog, is very interested in co-writing the book with me. Butch has a unique perspective about men due to his lifelong love of hockey. He also has excellent writing skills. I am excited to hear more of his perspective on this topic and see where this project leads us as we talk to a variety of people with various backgrounds.
As some of you know, I have been a full-time alternative counselor and coach for over 17 years. Over the years I have developed a number of healing processes and audios (audios to be released soon) to help the mind, emotions and body reprogram and re-pattern itself into new ways of thinking, feeling and behaving.
Its very important to re-pattern the mind, emotions and body daily since our old ways of thinking, feeling and behaving are very ingrained. The healing processes i've been guided to develop are meant to be used daily to ensure steady and permanent change. The audios make it very easy to keep change going but I will give you one to read (below) daily to start some important changes within yourself.
We are not operating singularly since we are connected to all souls in many dimensions and universes. Therefore, we must also work on shifting the way we connect to all souls.
The souls with the greatest influence on us in our current life are our ancestors on both sides of our families--both alive and deceased. Its astounding how we repeat the same things as the generations before us unless someone (like you) comes in to change yourself and consciously shift the connection between yourself and your ancestors.
Our soul group--those souls we have all our lives with either incarnated together or helping from the other side--also influences us. Some of our ancestors are likely in our soul group as well.
Our interlocking soul group (a term I made up to describe this) are those souls we've had many lifetimes with but not all of them. Some of our ancestors are likely in this group as well.
Our soul has much more going on than our current life. We are in many dimensions and universes all at the same time as the one we are in today.
These many lifetimes also influence how we feel and operate in our current lifetime. I call this "aspects of our soul" meaning that a part of us is in many lifetimes all at the same time. The sciences are starting to show this as well.
Ed Belbruno, an astrophysicist and celestial mechanics mathematician, has written a previous blog for me a few years back giving a nugget of information on this topic.
Ed wrote the peer reviewed paper, "A dynamical system's approach to Schwarzschild null geodesics" a few years back. In lay person's terms he calls it, "The Black Hole Theory."
The theory is (as best I can understand it) that we have a black hole in the center of our universe that is a billion suns big. The black hole has a spin, mass, volume and size to it that creates an atmosphere that allows particles to be in many locations at the same time.
Keep an eye on Ed--he has many published papers proving out the seemingly impossible. He is also a professional artist and has had an award winning documentary on his life showcasing the similarities between art and the sciences and how his gifts are in both fields.
Quantum mechanics, quantum entanglement and string theory are also showing some of this as well. J. Richard Gott, a Princeton University Astrophysicist and professor, has done high level research too. His book, "Time Travel in Einstein's Universe" is a good book to purchase giving the background on multiple timelines and probabilities.
All of the influences described above are silent programs in our energy field. This is much like a computer that has many unseen, open programs in the background causing it to slow down and make it not work well.
These silent programs must be worked on in order for us to make optimal personal change. As we make personal change, we help everybody and everything since everything is interconnected--particularly the souls listed above. This is the key to creating a collective shift.
I'd like to see this occur for men so that they can thrive emotionally and spiritually. I'd also like to see women all around the globe make a shift mentally and physically. This will allow all of us to make a shift into a much higher consciousness than we currently have on this planet.
Below is a healing process to read daily to transform patriarchy. This process is to help both men and women and occurs by reading the words and having the intention that you want optimal change for yourself with your Higher Self/Spirit directing or deciding what is truly best for you.
Keep in mind that men have a feminine side to them and women have a masculine side to them so this will help bring internal balance that gradually creates an outer collective shift.
Healing Process to Transform the Effects of Patriarchy:
- I ask my Higher Self to direct and my optimal spirit guides (could be ancestors, angels, high level Beings/Guides, etc) aligned with my highest good, truth, and Source to assist.
- I ask for an energy of protection and energy of invisibility so only those spirits and guides that are optimal can participate and see in.
- I ask to open up the Crystalline Dimension or love dimension in all universes and ask that it translates into a vibration that supports optimal health and wellness and transmutes anything below the vibration of love into the vibration of love.
- I ask to call in my ancestors on my mother's side of the family, both alive and deceased, those still influencing me today.
- I ask to call in the ancestors on my father's side of the family, both alive and deceased, those still influencing me today.
- I ask to call in my soul group and interlocking soul groups.
- I ask to call in all aspects of my soul in all lifetimes influencing me along with those souls with me in these lifetimes.
- I ask that each soul present, including aspects of my own soul, only accept the work that their Higher Selves feel is beneficial at this time, if any. I am asking that these souls are present today since I'm asking to change my connection to each of them as described within this healing process.
- I ask that all healing work is done throughout our souls existence backwards and forwards in time, all levels of our Being (mentally, emotionally and physically) all appropriate dimensions in all universes and all energy fields that affect us using a no time and no space cocoon or zone for a quick processing and upgrade to our energy fields (this means you are asking to be taken out of time and space so you can process much faster).
- I ask that new templates/blueprints/roadmaps come in to bring forth a new, optimal way of living emotionally and spiritually and structures come in to bring forth a new container to hold new, optimal energies and ways of being in the world that bring forth optimal emotional and spiritual authenticity.
- I ask to activate any codes within me that bring forth emotional and spiritual authenticity.
- I ask that optimal energies come in to bring me to optimal emotional and spiritual healing and awareness.
- I ask that any old emotional and spiritual templates/blueprints/roadmaps and the structures/containers to hold outdated energies are dissolved and transformed within me.
- I ask that new templates/blueprints/roadmaps come in to bring forth a new, optimal way of living mentally and physically and structures come in to bring forth a new container to hold new, optimal energies and ways of being in the world that bring forth optimal mental and physical authenticity so that my brain/intellect and my physical body are in the world optimally with my education, my career, my financial health and in all ways that apply to me.
- I ask to activate any codes within me that bring forth optimal mental and physical authenticity.
- I ask that optimal energies come in to bring me to optimal mental and physical awareness including positive action in the world.
- I ask that any old mental and physical templates/blueprints/roadmaps and structures/containers to hold outdated energy are dissolved and transformed within me.
- I ask to activate resiliency and trust codes within me so that my mind, emotions and body can make the needed changes easily and comfortably.
- I ask that resiliency and trust codes are placed within my aura, the attraction part of my energy field, so that I can activate resiliency and trust in everyone I met who is open to it.
- I ask to bring in energies to transform and cleanse issues, patterns, beliefs, unhelpful energies on a cellular level.
- I ask to bring in my own Divine Essence/Spirit to fill all voids and spaces. I ask that my Spirit plugs into the circuitry of my brain so it can direct me mentally, emotionally, and physically in all areas of my life.
- I also ask that the appropriate qualities and energies come in to bring me/them to my next level of growth including love, wisdom, harmony and balance.
- I call forth the strengthening and stabilizing energies for optimal health and vitality so my body accepts all positive changes as a positive with my Higher Self deciding what they are.
- I ask to weave the adaptability energy into all energy fields that affect me so that my mind, emotions and body adapt easily and comfortably to all the changes.
- I ask that a stability structure comes in so I feel safe and stable with all the changes.
- I ask for a strong grounding energy to ground these new changes.
- I ask to restructure and recalibrate all energy fields that affect me into the pattern that reflects the work done today throughout all time and space and beyond, all appropriate dimensions, or until no longer needed.
- I ask that a no time, no space cocoon or zone is around me (you could picture a caterpillar cocoon around you that is enveloping you in a no time, no space zone) to process all that I've brought in for a fast processing and upgrade of my energy field.
- I ask that all ancestors on my mother's side of the family and all ancestors on my father's side of the family, both alive and deceased, my soul group, interlocking soul group and all aspects of my soul and those souls with me in these lifetimes go fully back to their physical or energy bodies and all the work they choose to do integrates, processes, restructures, recalibrate and grounds with their physical or energy bodies using the no time and no space cocoon for a fast processing and upgrade of their energy field.
- I thank my Higher Self for directing. I thank my optimal spirit guides for assisting aligned with my highest good, truth, and Source and thank them for continuing to assist me throughout completion of this process and beyond with my Higher Self directing.
Let's join hands and make this happen together!