My friend Linda said, "I think part of the wisdom of the crone is about not working through our issues in the old ways. I don't think we need to internally focus on what needs to be cleared and what needs to be worked through so rigorously. Instead, we need to focus on what we want to see positively occurring in our lives and how to be in service."
At the time, I couldn't completely relate to Linda's crone advice. After all, she was more in the crone stage than myself and my other 40 something friend. I was still in the "rigorously working through the issues stage" and it certainly seemed to be working for me. In hindsight, I think she was referring to what I called (in my earlier blog) Phase 7 which is a very high spiritual phase and I was still in Phase 6 which is about working through the issues. Perhaps my friend was right--we weren't quite ready for this crone phase yet.
Linda's wise advice has been coming into my awareness a lot lately. I'm finding myself not as inclined to rigorously examine my inner life like I have over the last 25 years. I feel more inclined to move into loving and accepting myself--including all of my ideosyncrasies. This doesn't mean I don't take responsibility for my part in any challenges that come my way but I'm more likely to move into love and acceptance for my faults and blemishes. After all, we're all so imperfect here. At this stage of my life, love and acceptance seems to be the key for transformation.
Healing process to move men and women into their feminine wisdom
- Ask your Higher Self (HS) to direct and your optimal spiritual team to assist (spirits in the other realms/dimension that are more advanced than our human existence and have contracted to assist you in this lifetime).
- Ask for an energy of protection and energy of invisibility so only those spirits and guides that are optimal can participate and see in.
- Ask that all the work done is throughout your soul's history and beyond, all levels of your Being (your mind, emotions, and body) and all grid systems/energy fields that effect you using non-linear time to process.
- Ask that a vibration comes into the aura (the egg shaped energy field around you) and etheric body (the blueprint of your mind, emotions, and body) to break down and release barriers/shields to finding love within and externally.
- Ask for a robin egg colored energy to go into your aura creating a new structure of manifestation to manifest love and acceptance into your life internally and externally.
- Ask that an energy goes into the 1st chakra (at the tailbone) neutralizing beliefs, memories, and patterns so that viewpoints turn into the feeling state of love and acceptance.
- Ask that structures come into all grid systems/energy fields that effect you solidifying the holding of this new love and acceptance feeling state.
- Ask that a new structure comes into your etheric body to prepare you for a unique, fulfilling purpose that helps humanity in small and/or large ways (just embodying love and acceptance is a huge purpose).
- Ask that a new script, without words, comes in that is purpose filled without the human story attached to it. This script is based on a feeling state aligned with love and acceptance.
- Ask that all the work is locked in down to a cellular level.
- Ask that all grid systems/energy fields that effect you are restructured and recalibrated into the pattern that reflects the work you did today throughout all time and space and beyond, all appropriate dimension or until no longer needed.
- Ask that a no time, no space cocoon (kind of like a caterpillar cocoon) goes around you (you are asking that your brain moves out of linear time into what most of the universe contains--non-linear time) for a fast processing and upgrade of your energy system.
- Thank your HS for directing, your optimal spirit guides for assisting. Thank them for continuing to assist throughout completion of this process and beyond with your HS directing it.
After all, you are a Divine Being having a human experience. This phase of the ride is what you've been waiting for!