Embarking on an Updated Men's Movement Helps Both Men & Women!

My last blog addressed how patriarchy hurts not only women but men.  Patriarchy trains men to hold in their emotions in order to be accepted by others which breeds power and control issues thus lack of authentic spiritual connection.

Women have been hurt by patriarchy mentally and physically but have made huge progress in western culture.  Women can work many of the same jobs as men and more women than men are now attending college. Men, unfortunately, have made little progress in any cultures around the world.

Men's wounds from patriarchy need to be held in the light and transformed since it affects both men and women and their relationships together.

Thor Eisentrager excitedly contacted me after reading my last blog. Thor let me know that he agreed with my blog and that this important topic has been his life long spiritual mission.  He was a part of the men's movement in the 1980's and was very disheartened after the whole movement collapsed without a sound.

I have known Thor since 1999 since we're both a part of some of the same spiritual circles.  When I first met Thor, he had recently let go a full-time career as a musician to embark fully on his spiritual path.  This meant transforming his own inner self which is the key for all of us to be authentic personally and spiritually.  This means getting in touch with one's emotions as well.

I am excited to see that Thor is now ready to take his spiritual path a step further--assisting men in getting in touch with their authentic, spiritual core.  I have no doubt he will make an impact on other men and the women who love them.

I talked to my previous neighbor and friend, Doug Toft, about this topic.  Doug was also a part of the old men's movement.  I have always found Doug to be more in touch with his emotions and spiritual authenticity than most men.  Doug has been a writer and editor for 30 years and was intrigued with my idea of bringing back the men's movement in an updated form by writing a book interviewing many men in different cultures and in different fields such as music, sports and corporate.

Butch Williams, a former NHL player, whom I wrote about last blog, is very interested in co-writing the book with me.  Butch has a unique perspective about men due to his lifelong love of hockey. He also has excellent writing skills. I am excited to hear more of his perspective on this topic and see where this project leads us as we talk to a variety of people with various backgrounds.

As some of  you know, I have been a full-time alternative counselor and coach for over 17 years.  Over the years I have developed a number of healing processes and audios (audios to be released soon) to help the mind, emotions and body reprogram and re-pattern itself into new ways of thinking, feeling and behaving.

Its very important to re-pattern the mind, emotions and body daily since our old ways of thinking, feeling and behaving are very ingrained.  The healing processes i've been guided to develop are meant to be used daily to ensure steady and permanent change. The audios make it very easy to keep change going but I will give you one to read (below) daily to start some important changes within yourself.

We are not operating singularly since we are connected to all souls in many dimensions and universes.  Therefore, we must also work on shifting the way we connect to all souls.

The souls with the greatest influence on us in our current life are our ancestors on both sides of our families--both alive and deceased.  Its astounding how we repeat the same things as the generations before us unless someone (like you) comes in to change yourself and consciously shift the connection between yourself and your ancestors.

Our soul group--those souls we have all our lives with either incarnated together or helping from the other side--also influences us.  Some of our ancestors are likely in our soul group as well.

Our interlocking soul group (a term I made up to describe this) are those souls we've had many lifetimes with but not all of them.  Some of our ancestors are likely in this group as well.

Our soul has much more going on than our current life.  We are in many dimensions and universes all at the same time as the one we are in today.

These many lifetimes also influence how we feel and operate in our current lifetime. I call this "aspects of our soul" meaning that a part of us is in many lifetimes all at the same time. The sciences are starting to show this as well.

Ed Belbruno, an astrophysicist and celestial mechanics mathematician, has written a previous blog for me a few years back giving a nugget of information on this topic.

Ed wrote the peer reviewed paper, "A dynamical system's approach to Schwarzschild null geodesics" a few years back.  In lay person's terms he calls it, "The Black Hole Theory."

The theory is (as best I can understand it) that we have a black hole in the center of our universe that is a billion suns big. The black hole has a spin, mass, volume and size to it that creates an atmosphere that allows particles to be in many locations at the same time.

Keep an eye on Ed--he has many published papers proving out the seemingly impossible.  He is also a professional artist and has had an award winning documentary on his life showcasing the similarities between art and the sciences and how his gifts are in both fields.

Quantum mechanics, quantum entanglement and string theory are also showing some of this as well.  J. Richard Gott, a Princeton University Astrophysicist and professor, has done high level research too.  His book, "Time Travel in Einstein's Universe" is a good book to purchase giving the background on multiple timelines and probabilities.

All of the influences described above are silent programs in our energy field.  This is much like a computer that has many unseen, open programs in the background causing it to slow down and make it not work well.

These silent programs must be worked on in order for us to make optimal personal change.  As we make personal change, we help everybody and everything since everything is interconnected--particularly the souls listed above.  This is the key to creating a collective shift.

I'd like to see this occur for men so that they can thrive emotionally and spiritually.  I'd also like to see women all around the globe make a shift mentally and physically.  This will allow all of us to make a shift into a much higher consciousness than we currently have on this planet.

Below is a healing process to read daily to transform patriarchy.  This process is to help both men and women and occurs by reading the words and having the intention that you want optimal change for yourself with your Higher Self/Spirit directing or deciding what is truly best for you.

Keep in mind that men have a feminine side to them and women have a masculine side to them so this will help bring internal balance that gradually creates an outer collective shift.

Healing Process to Transform the Effects of Patriarchy:

• I ask my Higher Self to direct and my optimal spirit guides (could be ancestors, angels, high level Beings/Guides, etc) aligned with my highest good, truth, and Source to assist. 
• I ask for an energy of protection and energy of invisibility so only those spirits and guides that are optimal can participate and see in. 
• I ask to open up the Crystalline Dimension or love dimension in all universes and ask that it translates into a vibration that supports optimal health and wellness and transmutes anything below the vibration of love into the vibration of love.
• I ask to call in my ancestors on my mother's side of the family, both alive and deceased, those still influencing me today.
• I ask to call in the ancestors on my father's side of the family, both alive and deceased, those still influencing me today.
• I ask to call in my soul group and interlocking soul groups.
• I ask to call in all aspects of my soul in all lifetimes influencing me along with those souls with me in these lifetimes.
• I ask that each soul present, including aspects of my own soul, only accept the work that their Higher Selves feel is beneficial at this time, if any.  I am asking that these souls are present today since I'm asking to change my connection to each of them as described within this healing process.
• I ask that all healing work is done throughout our souls existence backwards and forwards in time, all levels of our Being (mentally, emotionally and physically) all appropriate dimensions in all universes and all energy fields that affect us using a no time and no space cocoon or zone for a quick processing and upgrade to our energy fields (this means you are asking to be taken out of time and space so you can process much faster).
• I ask that new templates/blueprints/roadmaps come in to bring forth a new, optimal way of living emotionally and spiritually and structures come in to bring forth a new container to hold new, optimal energies and ways of being in the world that bring forth optimal emotional and spiritual authenticity.
• I ask to activate any codes within me that bring forth emotional and spiritual authenticity.
• I ask that optimal energies come in to bring me to optimal emotional and spiritual healing and awareness.
• I ask that any old emotional and spiritual templates/blueprints/roadmaps and  the structures/containers to hold outdated energies are dissolved and transformed within me.
• I ask that new templates/blueprints/roadmaps come in to bring forth a new, optimal way of living mentally and physically  and structures come in to bring forth a new container to hold new, optimal energies and ways of being in the world that bring forth optimal mental and physical authenticity so that my brain/intellect and my physical body are in the world optimally with my education, my career, my financial health and in all ways that apply to me.
• I ask to activate any codes within me that bring forth optimal mental and physical authenticity.
• I ask that optimal energies come in to bring me to optimal mental and physical awareness including positive action in the world.
• I ask that any old mental and physical templates/blueprints/roadmaps and structures/containers to hold outdated energy are dissolved and transformed within me.
• I ask to activate resiliency and trust codes within me so that my mind, emotions and body can make the needed changes easily and comfortably.
• I ask that resiliency and trust codes are placed within my aura, the attraction part of my energy field, so that I can activate resiliency and trust in everyone I met who is open to it.
• I ask to bring in energies to transform and cleanse issues, patterns, beliefs, unhelpful energies on a cellular level.
• I ask to bring in my own Divine Essence/Spirit to fill all voids and spaces.  I ask that my Spirit plugs into the circuitry of my brain so it can direct me mentally, emotionally, and physically in all areas of my life.  
• I also ask that the appropriate qualities and energies come in to bring me/them to my next level of growth including love, wisdom, harmony and balance.
• I call forth the strengthening and stabilizing energies for optimal health and vitality so my body accepts all positive changes as a positive with my Higher Self deciding what they are.
• I ask to weave the adaptability energy into all energy fields that affect me so that my mind, emotions and body adapt easily and comfortably to all the changes.  
• I ask that a stability structure comes in so I feel safe and stable with all the changes. 
• I ask for a strong grounding energy to ground these new changes.  
• I ask to restructure and recalibrate all energy fields that affect me into the pattern that reflects the work done today throughout all time and space and beyond, all appropriate dimensions, or until no longer needed. 
• I ask that a no time, no space cocoon or zone is around me (you could picture a caterpillar cocoon around you that is enveloping you in a no time, no space zone) to process all that I've brought in for a fast processing and upgrade of my energy field.
• I ask that all ancestors on my mother's side of the family and all ancestors on my father's side of the family, both alive and deceased, my soul group, interlocking soul group and all aspects of my soul and those souls with me in these lifetimes go fully back to their physical or energy bodies and all the work they choose to do integrates, processes, restructures, recalibrate and grounds with their physical or energy bodies using the no time and no space cocoon for a fast processing and upgrade of their energy field.
•  I thank my Higher Self for directing. I thank my optimal spirit guides for assisting aligned with my highest good, truth, and Source and thank them for continuing to assist me throughout completion of this process and beyond with my Higher Self directing.

We are all blessed to be in an era of great change.  The darkest shadows are up for healing on our planet and surely the entire cosmos.  You are the answer to this collective transformation by doing your own inner work.  By doing so, we can move into our highest potential individually thus collectively since we are all interconnected.

Let's join hands and make this happen together!

Maureen Higgins owns Wings of Freedom, an alternative counseling and coaching business. She helps people be their best selves and recognize they are part of the Divine. Maureen has developed numerous energetic healing systems you can learn through her classes. Some of them are turned into audios that clear your energy field like a one-on-one session. Visit her site to try the free sample “Activating your Divine Light Codes. https://www.schoolforhigherconsciousness.com/energetic-healing-audios. Maureen is proud to announce her new website School for Higher Consciousness

Patriarchy--the silent killer of men's emotions and spirit

All of us know of how patriarchy (a male dominated society) has impacted women's lives over the past 5200 years.  It is known that women were mentally and physically impacted by patriarchy.

Women were not considered equals intellectually, were considered the property of men until the 1920's and loosely until the 1950's (in the United States) and unable to have paid jobs until relatively recently.

In many countries, women have made huge strides with overcoming patriarchy.  In the United States, more women are going to college than men.

Most people do not think of how patriarchy has affected men.

Men have been under the golden rule ("evil" spell) that having emotions is "sissy"--particularly crying.  The only emotion acceptable is anger. Men's identity is based on their earning power which breeds power and control issues along with being patted on the back for having sex with as many women as possible to prove that they are manly.

Of course this is a stereotype and not every man has followed this or acts this out. However, it still has its impact on the collective male.

All of these things keep men disconnected from their Spirit.  This is due to lack of emotions, competition and greed along with sexuality lacking in emotional intimacy and sacredness in connecting with another person.

I don't see as much progress for men as women in transforming patriarchy.

I talked  the other day to Mae Sylvester about this topic.  Mae has had many careers in her lifetime including politics, consulting and most recently retiring from the U of M's medical school. Mae said (in response to my banter about this), "whatever happened to the 'Men's Movement?'  Somehow a true men's movement was forgotten."  She inspired me to think of how we need to actively change this.

After talking to Mae, I excitedly called soul family Butch Williams, a former NHL player, about this topic and how it has affected him in his life.  Particularly since he was in such a competitive, aggressive sport.

Butch said that lack of emotions and extreme competition at any cost is rampant in the sport.  He said it developed his personality--particularly since his dad was a semi-pro hockey player and his brother, Tommy Williams, was also an NHL hockey player.

We talked about how there's a need to change the paradigm for all men if they're to feel free to be themselves--whatever this means for each individual.

What I believe we're seeking (for both men and women) is authenticity--the permission and freedom for all of us to fully be ourselves which includes self-love and self-acceptance.  By having these important qualities, we have an authentic humanity and cosmos where we love and accept each other.

Maureen Higgins owns Wings of Freedom, an alternative counseling and coaching business. She helps people be their best selves and recognize they are part of the Divine. Maureen has developed numerous energetic healing systems you can learn through her classes. Some of them are turned into audios that clear your energy field like a one-on-one session. Visit her site to try the free sample “Activating your Divine Light Codes. https://www.schoolforhigherconsciousness.com/energetic-healing-audios. Maureen is proud to announce her new website School for Higher Consciousness

Disconnect your energy field from outdated patterns, beliefs, issues & behaviors with ancestors and other soul friends

We are all born into an ancestral line that fits what we need for learning and growth.  As a soul, we want experiences that will help us let go of past guilt and unforgiveness from other lifetimes/soul experiences and move into freedom, love and compassion for self and others.

We pick an ancestry that will help us accomplish this through their positive and negative mental, physical, and emotional qualities.  Some of these qualities lie dormant within us and some of them are more active within us.

You are connected to your ancestors and to everybody and everything through a grid systems that operates like a telephone line. I call it the universal grid system or universal matrix.  You're connected to all souls via this grid system which encompasses many universes and dimensions or realities.

Your ancestors carry patterns, beliefs, issues and behaviors that are passed on through many generations and are connected to you through the universal matrix since anything that has happened, and is not resolved, remains within this system.  You are so linked into your ancestors through the universal matrix that you affect each other and may even feel each others emotions and pain.

If an ancestor(s) has not crossed over, you will feel it even more since an ancestor not crossing over locks in any unhelpful patterns, beliefs, issues & behaviors which makes it hard to clear these up since its like a lock on a door keeping things from moving in or out.  It is important to cross over these souls so they can heal and grow and so they no longer impact all their living ancestors in an unhelpful way.

You also belong to a soul group. Your soul group is like a troupe of actors and actresses who choose to continue working together in all the plays they are in and take turns playing different roles. Sometimes you pick the role of the hero and sometimes you pick the role of the lesson giver who delivers the hardest lessons and hurts people the most. The goal is to pick souls who can help you learn and grow the most and sometimes negative experiences help you grow more rapidly. Some soul group members may even play the role of a spirit guide who is watching over you.

You also have interlocking soul groups who belong to a different troupe of actors and actresses but like to join your soul groups plays and may do so regularly.  They can also play an important role for your learning.

We are now in a time in history where we can start disconnecting or unweaving our energy fields from the ancestors, soul group and interlocking soul groups in any unhelpful and outdated ways and connect only in the most optimal ways so we can move into love and forgiveness more fully (forgiveness = letting go of the past).

As we disconnect or unweave from the unhelpful qualities, we want to connect up to or reinforce a connection to the most positive qualities and gifts.

Below is a healing process that can assist you in being connected to your ancestors, soul group and interlocking soul group in only the most helpful and optimal ways.  By reading the healing process, you are automatically intending for what is written to happen for you with your Higher Self (your Spirit that never dies) directing and monitoring it to make sure it happens optimally and in perfect timing for you.

Do the below healing process, one time a day, for three months since change is incremental.

• I ask my Higher Self to direct and my optimal spirit guides aligned with my highest good, truth, and Source to assist. 
• I ask for an energy of protection and energy of invisibility so only those spirits and guides that are optimal can participate and see in. 
• I ask to open up the Crystalline Dimension (the realm or dimension that is all about love) and the highest dimensions in all universes that are about love and ask that they translate into a vibration that supports optimal health and wellness.  
• I ask that all healing work is done throughout my souls history backwards and forwards in time, all levels of my Being (mentally, emotionally and physically) all appropriate dimensions in all universes and all energy fields that affect me using a no time and no space cocoon or zone for a quick processing.
•  I ask to unweave all outdated patterns, beliefs, issues and behaviors in the energy fields between myself and my soul group members; between myself and my interlocking soul group members and between myself and all ancestors on my mom's side of the family and between myself and all ancestors on my dad's side of the family.
• If there are any ancestors or souls influencing me that have not crossed over, I ask that they are pinpointed and that a loving energy goes around them letting them know that this life is over and that its time to move on to a better place.  I ask that a tunnel of light appears to each ancestor, and soul who hasn't crossed and that any loved ones and spirit guides they resonate with are there to help them.  I ask that a loving energy lets them know that all is forgiven, there is only love and a loving place to go to and they don’t need to see anyone over there they don’t want to see and can come back to visit loved ones still on earth if they want to.
• I ask to transform energies that are unhelpful that are releasing from the unweaving using the exact opposite, most positive energies to do so.
• I ask to pinpoint all lower realm, entities and energies (the lower realms are connected into our unhelpful patterns, etc) and encapsulate them in a bubble of loving crystalline energy and move them out of my energy field using the no time, no space cocoon or zone.  I ask that a tunnel of light goes to each entity or energy so they are guided to their next highest level destination.  
• I ask to bring in the exact opposite of any entity residue and exact opposite of anything not serving me and transform it from my field.
• I ask to connect up to the positive gifts and energies with each member in my soul group, each  member in my interlocking soul group and each soul on my dad's side of the family and each soul on my mom's side of the family including other lifetimes and realities.  If there’s a person or soul that isn't a healthy connection at all, I ask that the connection is made somewhere else--a healthy lifetime
• I ask to bring in energies to transform and cleanse issues, patterns, beliefs, unhelpful energies on a cellular level.
• I ask to bring in my own Divine Essence/Spirit to fill all voids and spaces.  I ask that my Spirit plugs into the circuitry of my brain so it can direct me mentally, emotionally, and physically in all areas of my life.  
• I also ask that the appropriate qualities and energies come in to bring me/them to my next level of growth including love, wisdom, harmony and balance.
• I call forth the strengthening and stabilizing energies for optimal health and vitality so my body accepts all positive changes as a positive with my Higher Self deciding what they are.
• I ask to weave the adaptability energy into all energy fields that affect me so that my mind, emotions and body adapt easily and comfortably to all the changes.  
• I ask that a stability structure comes in so I feel safe and stable with all the changes. I ask for a strong grounding energy to ground these new changes.  
• I ask to restructure and recalibrate all energy fields that affect me into the pattern that reflects the work done today throughout all time and space and beyond, all appropriate dimensions, or until no longer needed. 
• I ask that a no time, no space cocoon or zone is around me (you could picture a caterpillar cocoon around you that is enveloping you in a no time, no space zone) to process all that I've brought in for a fast processing and upgrade of my energy field.
•  I thank my Higher Self for directing. I thank my optimal spirit guides for assisting aligned with my highest good, truth, and Source and thank them for continuing to assist me throughout completion of this process and beyond with my Higher Self directing.. 

The first week or two you may find that issues seem more pronounced since this process is geared to change your life into something more positive and some things may need to change or fall away.

Make sure you talk to like minded friends and talk to those people you need to resolve things with.  If this person isn't someone you can resolve things with, talk to someone else who can help you process things through. 

The end result is to bring in more peace, love and happiness since you are letting go of that which no longer serves you. 

The more of us who do this work, the more it ripples out and creates change for everyone.  "We are the ones we've been waiting for."

Maureen Higgins owns Wings of Freedom, an alternative counseling and coaching business. She helps people be their best selves and recognize they are part of the Divine. Maureen has developed numerous energetic healing systems you can learn through her classes. Some of them are turned into audios that clear your energy field like a one-on-one session. Visit her site to try the free sample “Activating your Divine Light Codes. https://www.schoolforhigherconsciousness.com/energetic-healing-audios. Maureen is proud to announce her new website School for Higher Consciousness